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I am intercast love-come-arrange married, for 10 years, and have a 6 year old marriage. As we both are working, we interact with colleagues at work. I am an extrovert person and maintain a healthy social circle. My wife is a bit introvert and she has always had issues on, me spending time with friends or for public relations. We have had grudges, arguments but we're able to cope and settle (compromise). I had no idea that my wife has hacked my cell phone, and checking all my chats, messenger convos, and even personal chats with my best friends For 4 years. I have heard taunts, comments but things were ignored as I never wanted my child to see his parents arguing over pity things. I being a convent student, I treat men and women equally and we talk about everything. But since my wife has been checking all my communication without my consent, has been pointing finger on my character in front of the kid too now. I am always worried about this and started maintaining a gap from friends and colleagues. Due to a sudden change in my life cycle, I have been prescribed to depression and high BP medication through a doctor at Gangaram hospital. Am not in touch with many, but a few. Still, she blames and insults me in front of the kid. The arguments have gone to a worse stage, she even tried to commit suicide consuming my sleeping pills and was hospitalized for 3 days. My widowed mom (60 years) is so much scared of her now, and so am I along with the kid. It's a lockdown time and is 24/7 at home but still, I receive threats from her, my phone is still hacked and so is my mom's. I am willing to leave this house, so she and my kid are safe in this pandemic. But worried what if she killed my kid and herself as she has threatened me of this. Don't know what to do.