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I am a foreigner currently living in India waiting for my OCI card. My Indian wife and I got married in 2017. Then she took a loan for me of 1.5 lakh for the purpose of buying a car. Because of the job, we could not really stay together. But Last year I took a loan from a bank to buy everything necessary in a home and then we started staying together until she had a fight in her working place and left her job. She got a job in Delhi and left. That's why all my problems started from, out of the blues, she said she doesn't love me anymore and now she won't help me with my visa extension. In March, our mutual friends talked to her and she said she has incurred a bill of 26k and that I should send that and she would come back home. I sent it to her but then lockdown was announced. During the lockdown I sent her at least more than 2 lakhs as she keeps getting into one debt or the other. Now she wants me to take care of the loan EMIs which she took for me in 2017 and also to take her credit card bill of 7k monthly. I sent her 15k last week and today, she said she needed me to pay all the loans of both credit cards and car at once. I said I don't have that kind of amount but I will continue to pay her EMIs. Now she is threatening to call my him that she is no longer with me, she also said she is going to tell him I have a loan with the bank (I have never missed a single EMI) and that I am not trustworthy and that I am working even though my OCI card is still processed. She is saying she will put me in trouble and all that. I am scared to death. I don't even have a traffic ticket, I detest anything that has to do with the police. I have done everything she has asked because I am not the troublesome type. If you ask her what is my offence, she will tell you I made her financially unstable even though throughout our marriage, I have given nothing less than 6lakhs. I don't know what to do. I am confused. Please have I committed any crime? What should I do before I get into some serious problems? We are both teachers and I never ever believe this could happen.