We have stayed in a house for 3 years.the owner had personal problem with the opposite house and she is asking us not to talk.but the opposite housse and we are close .so we were talking.now she is shouting from down to her husbnd that if they want to talk ask them to vacate the house.so we told we will vacate by november.the owner has put to let board now and showing house to people even we r still fully living in the house.when i went to ask she is saying to pay the deposit back we need to show them .it is uncomforble for us.so my question is how much time should we after we vacate for owner to show the house.and is it their mistake that they are showing how or not.lastly the owner is telling after u vacate is it ok if we cut rent for how many days it was empty as u dont want us to show now.please answr these